2018 SHM WEEKLY WISDOM TITBITS. WEEK 10. LET’S CELEBRATE LIFE’S MID-WIVES

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8th of March every year is celebrated as International Women’s Day. And it is an auspicious opportunity to celebrate our women folk.

Women have come a long way since the dawn of life. They are many things to many people, mostly in my view for good. One thing though that perhaps we should celebrate more about our women-folk is that God has so designed them, that without them there can be no continuation of mankind’s civilisation. Think about that!

Without our women folk, there can be no procreation and birth! Because God does not make any mistake, there must be a reason for this! What could that reason be? I can fathom a guess.

Women are designed strong and intuitive. AND THEY ARE DESIGNED FOR IMPACT. Trust me, I know! And many wise men know this. They are able to shape lives in ways irreversible only by the Almighty, more than any man ever could. When you get graced with a good woman – as a mother, wife, sister, daughter or friend, then you can better appreciate my point.

So, on all days, and specially today, let us as individuals and society, honour, appreciate and love our women. Our lives would be better for it.

From this mountain, here is a shout out to all women – STRONG MAY YOUR HANDS REMAIN AS YOU MID-WIVE LIFES!

You shall excel In Jesus’ mighty name. We love you!

March 6th 2018. Salvation House/LexConsults Humanae International.

 

2018 SHM WISDOM TITBITS. WEEK 5. PERSPECTIVE IS HUMBLING

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This week, let us talk about PERSPECTIVE.

I am sure you are a confident, self-aware, goal getting person and I thank God for your life. You may even be a person on the up, not yet there, but going somewhere to manifest. I equally bless His holy name for you.

However, do you know that for many of us folk, our achievement(s) can be our greater barrier to achieving more? See, it is natural, isn’t it, for a ‘self-made’ person to look down on another who ‘has not arrived’? And for someone who is less successful to think those at the top ‘have life made’?

And that has led many into emotions that are very destructive; such as pride, anger, resentment etc. And these emotions continue to tear family and friends apart.

But I would like to suggest a solution if any of us is trapped in this. It is an exercise (don’t worry, you should not break a sweat) 😃.

Go outdoors, find an open space (good luck with that city peeps😜), and lie down. Look up, and what would you see? Vast expanse of the sky, vast beyond the limit of your gaze! Then remind yourself that above the sky you can see are other layers of stratosphere you cannot see; and above that another layer, and so on and on! Hallelujah!

That shows you how every human being is, in the grand scheme of things. Infinitesimal! A speck of dust! This should calm every ego, and soothe every weary soul. Perspective allows human beings to see that there are bigger, better things beyond ourselves, and should bring the wise to this realisation – all our world is really a stage! Apologies, oga Shakespeare.

You shall excel In Jesus’ mighty name. We love you!

January 30th 2018. Salvation House/LexConsults Humanae International.

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Dear friend a lot of time and qualitative energy is spent in fruitless fights and misunderstanding between couples. What should be a loving, refreshing experience has turned into a hide and seek game, score keeping, points scoring etc. To the initiated, you will agree with me that there is indeed fire on the mountain of many marriages. But every hot thing has a cooling point!

You know, once both parties to a God-sanctioned union realize that marriage is a MERGER not an ACQUISITION half the battle of misunderstandings is won. The original purpose of Jehovah is a union of mutual helpers, not a master/servant relationship; or one of competitors! And often a simple test is required to understand why that man or woman is wired that way!

So, for those who have not, it is expedient that you know your PERSONALITY TYPE and check out that of your partner as well! Once you have an insight into this, you will understand why you behave the way you do; and why your spouse behaves as he/she does. Read books on these four personality types – Melancholic, Choleric, Sanguine and Phlegmatic. Encourage your spouse to do the same. AND RENEW THE WINE OF THAT UNION ALREADY!

Your testimony shall be that of a refreshing marriage IJMN.

We love you!!!
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